Guess what? This page is now in transition because I’ve decided to no longer be anonymous —
So goodbye Diana Hall, thanks for allowing me the courage to even start this journey! xoxo
I am a lifelong reader, writer, self-educator and eternal optimist.
The first 20 years of my life were spent being a people pleaser.
The second 20 were spent trying to determine what kind of life would please me.
For these next twenty years, I’d love to share my knowledge and experiences with whoever may be willing to listen.
So what’s in a name?
My home page gets into detail on Side Jams, and what that means. Making extra income, side hustles, side gigs, etc. —
And then of course there’s the Side Jams logo and photos of actual jars of jam — a quirky play on words (I hope?).
Okay, so if you read this, then you know I initially was not blogging with my actual name. There were a few reasons behind this.
Off the top of my head, those were pretty much fear of being discovered, shame of the amount of debt we had, and discomfort with the potential of discussing what I was doing with family members and friends.
But starting out as a newbie blogger, this seemed the right way to go. Because when you’re talking about money, especially debt, there’s a stigma that goes along with it.
Roughly one year into this blogging journey, I decided to ditch my pen name and reveal my true identity.
(I say this like I’m Batman, or something … but really, doing the reveal wasn’t anything more than sending a tweet.)
And the reason for doing the reveal was mainly because I didn’t really see the point anymore. The activity of maintaining this fake persona was too much effort with minimal gain. And would anyone in my life really even care that I had a blog? Probably not. Or more specifically, they’d either be really supportive and interested, or they’d look at it once and then move on.
So that’s the story about my anonymous blogging journey.
What I Can Offer You
Okay, now that you know more about me, let’s get down to what I can offer to you:
- Honesty – I promise to never sugar coat anything, I will tell you like it is. If I’m endorsing a product, it’s because I’ve used it (and found it useful). If I’m reviewing a website, it’s because I have experience with it. If I’m recommending it, that’s because I’ve found a benefit.
I will not tell you how to become a millionaire or retire by age 27.
I won’t tell you how to make money blogging to pay off all your debt within 3 short months.
There’s no way I would ever tell you to scrap your bills, ignore your financial obligations, or scam people into buying things that they don’t need.
Yes, I’m an optimist, but I’m no fool — and neither are you.
- Learning – Whatever I discover, I will pass along to you. Good, bad or indifferent — what’s the point in having a blog, if you’re not going to share valuable information with your readers?
I’ll do my best to communicate everything I’ve figured out, what my questions still are and what I’m just unsure of. And I will follow up if I find out more info, or change my mind about something.
- Collaboration – Do you have questions on anything that I’ve reviewed or written? Is there anything I could possibly help you figure out?
I’m always willing to help a peer — poking at different ways to handle situations or testing different strategies. I’ll be the first to tell you I’m by no means an expert. But I have an open mind and inquisitive nature.
Please feel free to reach out to me with any comments or feedback — on Side Jams, blogging or any topic that I write about!
- Community – Blogging can be an isolated profession, but collaborating with others is key. It’s a great way to network, develop working relationships and also build long-lasting friendships.
Working independently is something I’ve always been drawn to doing. It’s part of my introverted nature. Pushing past the isolation is sometimes difficult — and maybe it is for you too.
Or maybe you’re extroverted, and might not be a huge fan of working from home in solitude. Guess what? We can help and support each other. Because no matter our physical location, even if we’re halfway across the world from each other, we’re just a mouse-click away 🙂
I believe I just sounded like either a Hallmark card or Charlie Puth song … I apologize in retrospect for that.
Alright, well that’s my whole spiel. Who I am, what I’m about, and what I can offer to/for you.
Thanks for hanging in — and please do reach out with any questions, comments or feedback.